Yesterday's post asked the eternal question, how do you heal a progressive? For one thing, if they don't recognize that they have a problem -- and that the real problem doesn't have a political solution -- they're not going to seek treatment.
Generally speaking, the worse the mental illness, the more the denial. Imagine getting a Keith Olbermann to acknowledge that he might have a little problem. Achieving such a stable breakthrough with a personality disorder might take months of therapy.
I say "stable breakthrough" because people with personality disorders are, like anyone else, capable of insight. But because of a certain developmental arrest, they are subject to primitive defense mechanisms such as denial, splitting, and projection, so as to nullify the insight. In order to become stable, the insight must essentially develop from a temporary state to an enduring trait.
This is the maturational process, and it proceeds at its own pace. Children don't become adults overnight. It only took me four or five decades, and I'm still working on it. Looking back on it, I guess I missed a few developmental milestones along the way due to PTSD -- Partying Til the Shadows of Dawn.
Youth is an infirmity that old age does not always cure.
I heard that.
Yesterday we began a discussion of Christopher Rufo's Cluster B Society, and he's definitely onto something. Recall what Voegelin says about the impossibility of debating ideologues, and how the effort to do so becomes "medical in character" because it must "diagnose the syndromes of untrue existence" so as to initiate "a healing process."
Certainly I know what he means, but I don't think a medical model is the best way to frame the problem. For example, in medicine it is important that the physician recognize the problem, but in psychology it is important that the patient do so as well. In both cases there is "pain," but especially in personality disorders, the pain is denied, split off, projected, externalized, and acted out in relationships.
Analogously, if you go to your doctor with a broken leg, he doesn't have to first help you come around to the view that your pain is a consequence of the broken leg. Nor would doing so have anything to do with the "cure" for a broken leg, whereas in psychotherapy accurate recognition of the source of the psychic pain is very much part of the "cure."
But cure is a bad way to frame it, because there isn't one. "Cure" shouldn't even be in the vocabulary of a psychologist, for it is written:
Anything that fully solves problems has no relation to them.
The authentic problem does not demand that we solve it but rather that we try to live it.
We only know how to solve the problems that do not matter.
Indeed,
The cause of the modern sickness is the conviction that man can cure himself.
This is another reason not to conflate medicine and psychology, because imagine having to first convince the patient that he can't cure his own illness, before proceeding with the cure.
In reality, everywhere and anytime,
The soul is the task of man.
And
Man matures when he stops believing that politics solves his problems.
Which implies that progressives will always be with us, because there is always a fresh generation with skulls full of mush who externalize their problems and imagine there's a cure for human nature. Good times, good times... til the shadows of dawn.
Seriously, it's a relief to imagine that someone or something else is responsible for your pain. Moreover, tolerating emotional pain is a central part of maturity.
Here's an important one that goes to the heart of personality disorders:
Today the individual rebels against inalterable human nature in order to refrain from amending his own correctable nature.
In a Substack article, Rufo shares some perceptive reader comments on The Cluster B Society:
I think perhaps the greatest degenerative element of our Western social psychology over the last 60 years has been the displacement of a mentality of “we are all sinners” by a narcissistic mentality of maximal “self-esteem.”
Once you are encouraged to view yourself as axiomatically personally blameless, the next step is to look for someone or something else to blame for each and every one of your discontents. Re-cast your wonderful self as “victim” and then ask: Who needs to be cancelled?
There it is: like institutionalized character pathology, or a personality disorder writ large. On the one hand,
The modern man is the man who forgets what man knows about man.
Among which is that
Self-satisfaction is pathetic proof of lowliness.
Another reader points out how
Many organizations purporting to be about justice and positive goals are in reality led by highly disordered individuals and stirred by a mentality infected with disordered patterns of reasoning and emotion. These people gravitate toward positions of power and influence . . . they push unhinged agendas behind the scenes, without accountability.
The wider public needs to get wiser and understand this dynamic. Just because someone claims to be fighting for justice, human rights, or charitable causes doesn’t mean that this is what’s actually happening.
That is so true that I have nothing else to say, but I'll say it in the next installment.
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Rufo uses the word "pathocratic" - I can't think of a better way to describe what is happening today.
Pathocracy. How stupid of me not to have thought of it first.
You may not have come up with it, but I'll bet you can get a lot of mileage out of it in the future.
Looking at the Substack featuring reader comments now, this is another great one:
There are a number of traditionally feminine traits that our society lacks. Humility, patience, gentleness, kindness, mercy. Toxic femininity is what has taken over. I think of wicked queens and witches from fairy tales.
Western females spend their formative years being told that being traditionally feminine is wrong and shameful. When the boy was in Little League, I had to laugh at the difference in team names between baseball and softball. Baseball teams had all the usual names: Dodgers, Cardinals, 66ers, White Sox, etc. Softball team names, by contrast, were hyper aggressive: Beast Mode is the one I remember, but they were all meant to be intimidating.
The pathocracy is getting so bad, even leftists are starting to notice.
Yesterday's Best of the Web also noticed.
Even the left that get it (like the Bill Maher types) always have to couch their position with "that may be true, but at least we're not crazy like those Trumpers." Hence, no matter how bad things get, there is no cure for Trump [or insert your favorite conservative politician] derangement syndrome.
Everything not explicitly conservative is liberal, and gravity takes care of the rest.
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