Friday, December 04, 2020

Toxic Femininity and Hell on Earth

I had an acute case of Baader-Meinhof a couple days ago. First there was a tweet that said:

Much of what we call leftism is simply femaleism.

As evolutionary biology would predict. 

(https://twitter.com/HappyHectares/status/1334122286190759936) 

Which immediately provoked the idea for this post, or at least proposed a hypothetical equation in my head:

Leftism = Toxic femininity

Later in the day I switched channels to American Digest, where I read the following:

Masculine republics give way to feminine democracies, and feminine democracies give way to tyranny.

(http://americandigest.org/the-emphasis-added-aristotle-on-tyranny/#comments) 

To top it off,  later that same day I peeked over at Instapundit, where there was a link to an essay asking if our boyfriend is effeminate. The essay isn't worth reading, as it essentially lumps together every negative trait the author can think of under the heading "effeminate." 

(https://pjmedia.com/instapundit/417740/) 

She claims this term is "not to be confused with 'femininity,'" but rather, "is the opposite of masculinity." But according to Mr. Webster, it means precisely that, i.e., "having feminine qualities untypical of a mannot manly in appearance or manner." 

The author instead equates effeminacy with "attachment to pleasure," but there's already a word for that: hedonism.  

So, where does this leave us? It leaves us with this post, which I felt more enthusiastic about yesterday, when I started it, than I do today, when I'm dutifully finishing it. Nevertheless, I feel like I owe it to the cosmos to take seriously such a synchronicitous trifecta of internet references. 

In other words, if the cosmic slot machine goes to all the trouble of coming up triple cherries for me, the least I can do is inquire as to why. Perhaps there's a big payoff in store. Or maybe it's just God making a silly pun, as usual.   

So: is there something about leftism that revolves around toxic femininity? Well, I suppose it depends upon what we mean by "toxic." And "femininity. "

Regarding the latter, there is masculinity and there is femininity, each being archetypal and therefore teleological. Precisely because they are teleological and not simply given all at once, they can veer off course, i.e., they can become pathological.  In other words, pathology itself is a failure to achieve what the system or organ or archetype is designed to do. 

Much as I'd like to descend immediately into insultainment, this is a complex subject. Nor do I want to mirror the author above and lump everything I don't like into a bitch's brew of Toxic Leftism. 

Let's cut to the chase, or to my conclusion, and then perhaps try to back it up, even though my cerebrated angelic intelligence informs me this isn't strictly necessary, i.e., that seeing is believing.

There is masculinity and there is femininity, each an essential human quality. However, these do not constitute a dualism, but rather, a complementarity. Neither is reducible to the other, nor is it possible to understand one without reference to the other. 

Moreover, we cannot describe, say, a "healthy masculinity" in the absence of the femininity which partly defines it.  If there were no women -- no feminine -- there could be no healthy or unhealthy masculinity. And vice versa: if there is no healthy masculinity, then there can be no crazy ex-wives from hell -- Nancy Pelosi, Sandy Cortez, Hillary Clinton, Rachel Maddow, Ruth Ginsburg, Maxine Waters, et al, would all be considered perfectly normal. 

Now, Petey informs me that the masculine-feminine pole isn't just horizontal but vertical; it manifests at every level of being -- some say as being itself, being that being must always be placed in the context of beyond-being, however one wishes to conceptualize the latter.  

The point I am making is a subtle or possibly just cranky one, but there is the cataphatic God we can know about and the apophatic God about whom we can know nothing (i.e., know nothing, not know nothing). Speaking only for myself and for Petey, it looks to us like Being is masculine in relation to the ultimate feminine womb-matrix of Beyond-Being.  

This no doubt smells a bit heterodox, but there are precedents, and not just Meister Eckhart, who wrote that "From all eternity God lies on a maternity bed giving birth. The essence of God is birthing."

However, there is also the sempiternal birth of existence from being, which has always been understood conversely, i.e., the masculine God and the feminine creation (e..g., "mother nature," or "Maya," or "Prakriti").  

Here again, these views are not contradictory but complementary -- much like the two stories of creation in Genesis. The first is more like Being from Beyond-Being, the second more like Existence from Being.

Bob, could you get any further afield?  

I don't know, but I'll try. Elsewhere Eckhart adverts to what we are calling Beyond-Being:

--The divine one is a negation of negations and a denial of denials.

--God is nothing. No thing. God is nothingness; and yet God is something.

--God is being beyond all being; God is a beingless being.

--The final goal of being is the darkness and the unknowability of the hidden divinity, which is that light which shines 'but the darkness cannot comprehend it.'

--God acts but the Godhead does not act. The mystery of the darkness of the eternal Godhead is unknown and never was known and never will be known.

I know: just like a woman.  

But there's more. If ultimate reality is a kind of eternal birthing, then I believe it helps us to comprehend what it means for the the Son to be eternally begotten and not made (the latter implying a creation in time). 

It also goes to the very nub of the gist of the whole point of the Incarnation, which, for Eckhart, is to facilitate this same eternal birth in ourselves:

Pay attention now to exactly where this birth takes place: this eternal birth takes place in the soul totally in the manner in which it takes place in eternity....

There is only one birth -- and this birth takes place in the being and in the ground and core of the soul.

Now, you may not agree with the Meistero, which is fine. Different storks for different dorks. Still, this is how I see it:  

And the Creator extends the same power to you out of the divine maternity bed located in the Godhead to eternally give birth.   

In other words, this is the ultimate explanation of our own inexhaustible creativity.  Or, let's say a more majestic explanation -- one that honors the extraordinary privilege of being cosmic co-creators:

Let me express myself in even a clearer way. The fruitful person gives birth out of the very same foundation from which the Creator begets the eternal Word... and it is from this core that one becomes fruitfully pregnant.

I guess we're almost done, and it would be bad form at this point to throw in some cheap shots about the toxic femininity of the left. Still, Eckhart wonders,

Why is it that some people do not bear fruit?

He suggests that it is due to a lack of faith in God. Which is not an issue for the left, since they posit no God in whom we owe our faith, only a State to whom we owe our obedience. 

Now, is this State a bad mother -- shut your mouth! -- or a bad father?

Trick question!

For it is both, the discordant marriage of a shrieking, hyperemotional femininity and an obnoxiously bullying masculinity, each equally toxic.  Also known as hell.

13 comments:

Gagdad Bob said...

On amazon there's a book on Eckart I'd never seen before, called Everything as Divine: The Wisdom of Meister Eckhart. Check out the Introduction in the preview for some further commentary on this post.

Gagdad Bob said...

That was post #177 this year, the most in any year since 2015. In case anyone's counting.

ted said...

If you add 177, it comes out to 15, which is exactly 3 times the number strains of Covid-19. I'm Qanon'ing you!

On another note Tucker Carlson was so on point last night.

julie said...

To top it off, later that same day I peeked over at Instapundit, where there was a link to an essay asking if our boyfriend is effeminate. The essay isn't worth reading, as it essentially lumps together every negative trait the author can think of under the heading "effeminate."

Read that the other day; it was several minutes I'll never get back.

julie said...

He suggests that it is due to a lack of faith in God. Which is not an issue for the left, since they posit no God in whom we owe our faith, only a State to whom we owe our obedience.

To be fair, they do like to throw people a bone now and then. Hence the cult of "believe in yourself" positivity, "you go girl"-ism, or as witnessed during this year's Thanksgiving parade, just the command to "Believe." In what is never specified. Fairies, Darwin, or magic are all presumably acceptable; God and especially Jesus, not so much.

Gagdad Bob said...

She meant well. But she should just break up with the guy.

Nicolás said...

Religion under the influence of the progressive clergy, instead of being the opiate of the people, is their poison.

julie said...

Ha - yes, for both their sakes.

I vaguely remember scrolling through that publication when they first started. Supposed to be a women's magazine for conservatives, I think, but mostly it just seemed pretty lame. Kind of like Christian heavy metal.

Gagdad Bob said...

You're not making Christianity better, you're just making rock worse.

An evangelical friend of ours listens to something called "praise music." Ironic, because it makes me want to curse.

julie said...

Yep.

Anonymous said...

This thoughtful post, #177 for the year, is a fine piece of writing. Your unique and probably inimitable style is foregrounded in this post which gives it a fresh and relevant feel.

Toxic femininity. Yep. I am heavily exposed to this in daily life. As my spouse puts it "too much estrogen in the room." Things get dang nasty. Ladies can be cruel.

As a young person my natural urges to hunt ran up against the revulsion of the ladies in my family for that sport. Why did they hate it so? Why would they not let me dress my game in the house?

They would tolerate fishing and allow fish to table. Not so the game; this I ate alone.

It all seemed very toxic at the time. To this day, when Political Correctness is encountered, I recall this early proscription against hunting.

Is it possible hunting and fishing are archetypal healthy masculine properties which the females try to knock down for some reason?

I also noticed upon growing old that hunting and fishing were set aside in favor of a general desire for peace, beauty, and the scriptures. I think this a normal progression.

We all eventually have to set aside much gender baggage and simply become wise and tranquil elders. Then death comes and a new adventure starts.

Anonymous said...

I listen to a Christian Rock station called K-Love and the songs are superb, fresh, modern, and many rock very hard.

Google a song called "He Reigns" by the Newsboys and listen to it with the volume up high and the bass response cranked up. This is the quintessential rock song of the entire genre. You will then understand why good Christian rock is potent medicine for the spirit and pleasing to God.

Do not get fooled by soft-rock pabulum or electronic Christmas Carols. That sh*t will corrode your soul. So be careful out there on the airwaves.

Anonymous said...

Another good'n is Jericho by Andrew Ripp. You would have to be made out of wood to not feel something while listening to this one.

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